Bpd evil reddit ADMIN MOD My partner doesn’t exist Business, Economics, and Finance. People with BPD and PTSD both display very similar signs of trauma, but with PTSD the trauma is by definition real. Posted by u/CurlyDee - 25 votes and 7 comments Posted by u/throwawayaskkwomeen - 4 votes and 25 comments Your BPD parent thinks it's normal to walk around naked and undress in front of you. Esse_Luminis. and then the manfiestation of evil the next hey. I have a lot of advice to give but it’s a lot to give out here. But I guess I’m just not. I am empty, a soulless female entity Not saying people with BPD dont ever deserve to be in a relationship but they aren't the healthiest to be in a relationship with. Deciding to selectively pick, choose and compare relative empathy for personal gain and self-victimhood is a choice. I_Love_You-BOT • I love you too! I am a bot trying to spread a little peace, love, and unity around Reddit. im doing a disorder study for a college class and i was wondering who arw some resident evil characters you can see with bpd? its hard to tell since you never really get the chance the see them casually and outside of missions and nearly everyone in the franchise deals with ptsd alongside anything else they have so it can be hard to differentiate. They are in a lot of emotional pain and typically have a history of trauma. I like pony and I am men liker who is a man. Did u change them? I see that they are THE self righteous evil in this world and arent any better than a person with BPD. I have BPD and I have nightmares 3-4 times a week. I'm not fucking evil, fuck off BPD stigma on Reddit . Ironically, this idea is a form of black-and-white thinking, like we see in Whenever I say some of the things she did to me to other people they will say it is evil. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). g. My ex friend with BPD has the wildest histories (rife with drama, anger, and offenses of course) with so many other people but yet I watched as she would circle back to people I would have sworn off forever if I were in her shoes (I mean assuming her side of the story was really the whole truth and she was truly the victim) and act as if everything in the 20 votes, 15 comments. there are usually differences in how codependency looks with bpd vs without it, but really it doesn't matter because the issue is definitional at heart. It is the reason why a lot of psychs think BPD may be very under-diagnosed (a belief with which I quibble with a bit here), since it's hard to ascertain truthfulness in a therapy session. seeing everything in black and white, and seeing me as evil traitor the moment we disagree on anything, forgetting that anything positive ever came from me I grew up with a waify BPD mom, and I see Jerry Smith do many similar things. Not to mention but treating it is very difficult and most doctors refuse to treat it. Members Online Ok123890 I grew up with a waify BPD mom, and I see Jerry Smith do many similar things. The sufferer self-sabotages but refuses to acknowledge any issue on their part, and the people around them are often collateral damage. When they think you are going to leave they either turn super sweet or super evil depending on the scenario. comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A Add a Comment. I left him almost 6mths ago now, and I have been seeing a therapist and doing great. it's literally against the rules there to say that not all people with BPD are abusive. biting, in your case) are the result of trauma. I am majoring in neuroscience and behavior with a minor in psychology and I have done several studies on BPD in particular. We all have the capacity to do shitty things to others. They’re just further stigmatizing a misunderstood disorder and are frankly being hypocrites, because BPD was also once a very stigmatized disorder but is now being more understood by the general public. i know this feeling all too well and I'll give you the advice I never follow but probably should:) you are not your illness. Beth is more abusive and toxic, while Jerry is enabling, codependent and waify. Also, you should know that BPD is often hard to differentiate from PTSD. This subreddit is an abuse support forum. Evil Sibling- dead parent . I read about a quarter of the book before realizing that it sounds like the authors really don't like people with BPD, and it just kind of felt bad to read. Granted, I also think Beth & Rick are NPD, so Beth & Jerry could be an NPD / BPD couple. 1K subscribers in the BPDSongs community. Or check it out in the app stores "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). This is SO TRUE. The BPD in my life formulates a new name and identity every few years. Seek out people who are like you. BPD is often triggered from the interplay of genetics with trauma during childhood. a favorite person relationship is defined by its interaction with borderline pathology, so if you don't have bpd you can't truly have a favorite person. If anyone is going through an “im evil” moment rn, I just wanna say, NO YOU ARE NOT!!! I seem to be a magnet for people with BDP. Members Online Do you guys have this issue of having an entirely different personality when texting vs r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. 309 votes, 103 comments. You are also welcome to post here (unless you have BPD yourself). BPD Relationship Overview: Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a hereditary, genetic condition that significantly affects emotions, sense of self, memory and interpersonal relationships. Nobody believes they are evil and many think they are doing good. The DBT I feel unworthy of forgiveness, and that has just made everything worse. But looking back the most obvious signs were: whiplash mood swings, at its most extreme I can go from feeling worthless and suicidal to god-tier confidence in half an hour; always struggling with irrational irritability and anger issues and fighting my brain to stay calm and composed; extreme rejection sensitivity; feeling like my personality is fragmented, Skip to main content. I feel stupid for even caring this much about what she says. Heck, I even deleted the Reddit app entirely. Evil_Vegetable u/Evil_Vegetable Overview Posts r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. BPD get's overwhelmed and drops the act because the act is no longer concealing their inner emotional pain. I’m going with 50% crazy and 50% evil I find that grey rocking is really effective in most cases, and I have also found that grey rocking + 5% enthusiasm works even better bc they suspect it even less Same, I’ve got BPD with NPD traits and it’s sickening how some borderlines will throw narcs under the bus despite both being cluster B. What this means exactly isn't exactly important to understand what BPD is. If you are posting on reddit to ask for relationship help with a pwBPD theres a pretty good chance it wont work out. Most of the relationships that I've seen work with a pwBPD were with narcissistic people. Evil is r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. As a result, BPD is often a vastly different experience person to person. I felt like I didn't need to read it anymore and that I was doing great. if you have something like a favorite person, it's just called codependency Typically what causes them to stop the act is overwhelming feelings that have nothing to do with the non, but are nonetheless projected onto the non. I'm not hurting anyone. 23 votes, 11 comments. BPD is rarely the only disorder someone has, and comorbidities can One abusive parent is known to have BPD, so BPD becomes stigmatized, so pwBPD don't out themselves, so we continue to hear about BPD only in negative circumstances. Sadistic types enjoy others' torment. If I'm lucky, my husband is awake and hears me trying to scream and wakes me up. if you have something like a favorite person, it's just called codependency You're not evil. The ones you mentioned as well as unstable relationships, extreme mood swings, impulsive behavior, and it looks like shifting self-image is on its way as well. I'm Posted by u/hungrykatana - 1 vote and no comments r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. Usually they involve dark rooms, evil feelings, demons and telekinesis. In my experience, yes and no. They do really want to harm you, make you unhappy for them to feel a bit better. Or also like a puzzle, the NPD box is missing pieces or pretty much empty. Like I said I don't think pwBPD are evil or lesser or not worthy of love, and I have seen some people lashing out at people with BPD in general out of sadness, anger, trauma or whatever they were feeling. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home Wow im so sorry. This is a place JUST for those suffering from BPD to talk among themselves. What an evil, evil, evil plot twist Locked post. Most of my BPD is triggered within the context of a romantic relationship, especially attracting avoident partners and the tendensy to put all of my eggs in one basket when I really like someone. Self-mutilation occurs frequently Psychological experts have argued over possible psychiatric diagnoses, including Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Be the first to comment BPD = bored person disorder 🥱🔥 They used spectrums between two types of behavior. No BPD does not equal evil but certainly can look like evil when untreated and unaware of how abusive their actions are. A Layperson's Summary of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a disorder of Dysregulation that significantly affects emotions, relationships, memories, and sense of self. More posts you may like. You have trouble taking compliments, and are extremely suspicious of the person complimenting you. I understand there are some negative stigmas attached to bpd, but I don't technically see people instantly writing off those with bpd as "evil". My two best friends have BPD, my next closet friend has BPD and everyone in my friend group are all mentally ill. Gaslighting is evil, even if you truly believe the things you are saying which is what people with BPD believe. Stress-related paranoid ideation is often listed as part of the diagnostic criteria for Untreated BPD is when they become uncontrollable and sometimes violent whether that's mentally or physically. whats your opinion? i was The videos I see basically always portray BPD as a horrible illness that affects ONLY the person that has it. Songs that give you the feels, a bunch of emotions and r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. There's the fact that people with BPD often don’t look ill at first glance—what Linehan would call "apparent competence. “Pushing away healthy supportive people If you have borderline personality disorder (BPD), you may have experienced paranoid thoughts before. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse Unfortunately, ive run across multiple echo chambers on reddit which are comprised of people who have been hurt or abused by people with said mental illnesses. Bpd is treatable. They hurt other people because they don't care what other people are feeling and will do anything to get their way. Posted by u/beautymewsings - 47 votes and 31 comments You are split black, so you are evil incarnate. like "I feel like I'm walking on eggshells" and you end up on several mental health websites and ultimately on This is the only subreddit that allows those that suffer from BPD to talk in an unbiased forum. Also sick part is most bpd patients develop it to cope with abuse they’ve suffered. Idk, I think BPD manifests in various behaviors depending on the person. They are so rightous, they are a deity, they deserve respect but end up coercing 235 votes, 75 comments. The only way we can break the shame and stigma surrounding symptoms of BPD is to talk about them, so to open up this discussion, we asked our BPD community to share with us the symptoms they were most embarrassed of. Be the first to comment yes, i know these people have been abused. ) "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). These same people, Man I wish more people knew that having a illness like that doesn't make people automatically evil. 339 votes, 83 comments. And in my understanding of what most people would classify as evil, it truly is evil. Co-dependence, denial, anger and more are all common things I struggled with, with bpd love. But it hurts. For people to justify this behaviour, my behaviour, is cringey. 86K subscribers in the BPDlovedones community. when things get emotionally intense for people with bpd it feels like the world is caving in on them and it throws you into "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disor Your BPD is a complex network of trauma responses, high emotions, and the resulting defense mechanisms (eg. If you stumble home drunk at 4 am smelling of other women she will give you a high five. e. the constant lying and manipulation aren't intrinsic to bpd Could you expand on this? I've considered I might have BPD for quite some time but have had more than one therapist tell me that I essentially wasn't "evil" enough because I wasn't partaking in the behavior that's directly harmful towards others, e. People with BPD are people. I have BPD and I've been called so many bad names/things. are “actually the evil ones,” or “not actually Thanks for your comment - if you were wondering why my response has been 99 days, yep you guessed it. She needs someone who's not sick, who can love her and not put her thru my constant struggles. (I haven’t to my knowledge) no one chooses to get abused, no one chooses to be suicidal and impulsive. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD If you have BPD and need support, there are other subreddits for you (/r/BPD, /r/BPDSOFFA and /r/BorderlinePDisorder). If you are a child of BPD parents, there is a special support sub for you, /r/raisedbyborderlines. i feel like everyone “abuses/manipulates” at times, even subconsciously, especially if you’ve I made the mistake of marrying my pwuBPD, I never knew about BPD till near the end of the marriage. to getting diagnosed to hurting me and cheating on me to this final psycho who has embraced her evil. They don't. The younger one with bpd is a feshmen at the same college on medical leave for bpd problems. 267K subscribers in the BPD community. Right now her main interest is llamas, so many things in her life are llama themed. I started getting flashbacks of my toxic moments with my ex, and the thoughts that I'm a horrible evil monster just took over. I have been degraded and bullied but no longer. Most with BPD want help, we know we are flawed and we want to get better. But it is important that people start to understand pwbpd are not a monolith. 2. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support 284K subscribers in the BPD community. They paint BPD in such a bad light when I know that you all are capable of so much love and goodness and deserve better than that. Some people may be aware that other people believe what they do is evil but these people just don't care what others think. Evil wouldn't be the right term. I was in a 5-year relationship with someone who was eventually diagnosed with BPD. Some people are just assholes some of those assholes have bpd, don’t blame it on a mental illness blame the asshole. They also laugh at ‘old BPD stories’ like the last tik tok I watched, of this girl with BPD who was laughing because she one time tricked her ex into thinking she had killed herself. r/BPD A chip A chip PS: My case mainly followed the pattern of a quiet BPD relationship. 283K subscribers in the BPD community. My ex friend with BPD has the wildest histories (rife with drama, anger, and offenses of course) with so many other people but yet I watched as she would circle back to people I would have sworn off forever if I were in her shoes (I mean assuming her side of the story was really the whole truth and she was truly the victim) and act as if everything in the "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). I don’t think I’m evil, I try my best to be a good person. I’d be more than willing to help you one on one though. But it's also not your responsibility to go down with the ship. 87K subscribers in the BPDlovedones community. Crypto 2. I’m referring to medical (legit or not) literature you will find first on the web if you simply google « Borderline personality disorder ». Members "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Im not exactly in your position but i have a younger bpd daughter and an older one a senior in college. Watch a few videos on youtube of BPD's trying to describe themselves, it's creepy. Which reminds me, you can ask a person with BPD how it feels but you absolutely cannot rely on a person with BPD to relay their experience and motivations they are Reddit . Again, BPD makes us do things out of our control. It’s all black and white. So in a way bpd can be considered a trauma response. With true love, I only struggle with my own feelings and issues that are related to other mental illnesses I have. I know many borderlines say that you shouldn’t blame the disorder or call it borderline abuse, but let me point out the hypocrisy. My bpd daughter would kind of do the same thing. Account seems to be deleted right after a post calling out a specific employee at the head office who has a reddit account Posted by u/anom-alous - 7 votes and 4 comments Your BPD parent thinks it's normal to walk around naked and undress in front of you. Just nothing inside, but the BPD one is solid, maybe the consistency isn’t right, but everything is there. Narcissistic types are self Below you can read the “red flags” that let them know they had quiet BPD. Many borderlines LOOOOOVE to mention that they suffered from narcissistic abuse. . Very well put. I am empty, a soulless female entity That is normal with a BPD person. Or check it out in the app stores "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). No matter what your experience of “embarrassing” BPD symptoms looks like, we want you to know you aren’t alone. These are pretty factual articles and the pain factor is often missing or diminished (at least in (disclaimer i’m not an expert) certain people with untreated BPD can become abusive. Having BPD means you’re self destructive, have poor impulse control, have unstable relationships, and have an unstable sense of self. Sometimes it may take years before that happens. To be clear, BPD is Borderline Personality Disorder. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support BPD is never a problem at the beginning of a relationship because she is MIRRORING you. ” What loved ones may not realize though, is that for someone with It's been a while since I have been on here. Don’t try and fit in with people who don’t get it. I have become withdrawn and irritable. "Apparent competence" or the ability of people with BPD to present as more together than they are. Or check it out in the app stores TOPICS r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. Consulting reddit was a good call. New comments cannot be posted. But a lot of us use the term to describe states of high emotional tension or volatility that pass after a while and we return to baseline. My mother lost her father, in front of her, when she was 4. Or check it out in the app stores He foreshadowed things when he watched a movie and called the BPD character 'evil' Emotional abuse Abusers will always see everyone but themselves as evil. It's a black, empty, evil look. Which he says is a really positive thing. You are incapable of wrongdoing. I didn't suspect a thing, lol. there are multiple types of the disorder i believe, and the people who fall into the more petulant BPD category are the ones that get more heavy stigma. BPD doesn't get involved for me (thank fuck) Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. 254K subscribers in the BPD community. In turn she lived her whole life with that trauma, and I think it made her BPD. It's part of the push pull dynamic that exists. I have BPD also and I see a lot of the traits in Cassie. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home Also, you should know that BPD is often hard to differentiate from PTSD. At least in my opinion. If you're into it, she's into it. It’s really sad. They sent me to DBT because I had attempted suicide. r/BPD • It has been confirmed that I do not have BPD, so I am leaving this sub. These things coupled with the extreme fear of abandonment cause them to lash out. You are a hidden gem sexgod who will beat up her evil dad/brother/ex/etc. My ex girlfriend with BPD DID kill herself. Remember that there's a glimmer of you in there, even when it feels like your BPD is completely out of control. It just makes me want to give up (and I have - I don’t even put in effort to make friends or seek out there are usually differences in how codependency looks with bpd vs without it, but really it doesn't matter because the issue is definitional at heart. I constantly punish myself by reading stories of people abused by people with BPD, then convince myself that I am an evil person who doesn’t deserve to exist and can never have a healthy relationship. If you have borderline personality disorder (BPD), you might have experience with being called “obsessive. That demonization is done against people On Reddit r/SuicideWatch is an option for peer support, and has a list of international hotlines. If this label is accurate, it raises the question of how frequent BPD is When you live with a health condition, oftentimes there are some unwanted — or “embarrassing” — symptoms you have to learn to live with. seeing everything in black and white, and seeing me as evil traitor the moment we disagree on anything, forgetting that anything positive ever came from me I'm wondering if the cruelty and bitterness I'm seeing from my "ex" whatever he is, is because I had rejected him, and he is trying to ease his pain Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Elsewhere on reddit, when I said my mom has BPD, someone told to take BPD with a grain of salt, because women often get misdiagnosed with BPD for being "argumentative" and "unlikeable". Please send me a message if you have any feedback. I suspect that because there is the "evil" stigma attached to npd and aspd, more people are diagnosed (or even self-diagnosed) with bpd. An evil person wouldn’t feel bad about that, they simply wouldn’t care. I asked my parents about some of them, completely non BPD, and some of them fit (Except the psychotic ones, those are not unspoken of in diagnostic at all). Though there may be someone evil with bpd, having bpd doesnt make you evil. Oh boy. I am here to spread my evil whimsy. Of course there will be some people who are also just not nice but it isn’t always the case and stop fucking acting like we are all out to hurt people all BPD Relationship Overview: Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a hereditary, genetic condition that significantly affects emotions, sense of self, memory and interpersonal relationships. Without my two best friends I literally wouldn’t make it. being sick is a precondition for being evil. It's similar to the differentiation between freedom fighters and terrorists. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now (DBT. I know I am evil. when things get emotionally intense for people with bpd it feels like the world is caving in on them and it throws you into Bruh, I just wanted to get on here and say that I’m so thankful to have other people in my life who also have BPD. It's still the same person in the end. They do really want to harm you, make you unhappy We all know many BPDs can be manipulative, sadistic and have a strong need to hurt others - specially in the same way they feel hurt, be that for a real reason or not. Real Love doesn't behave like a BPD person says they Love. Posted by u/Similar-Cap-751 - No votes and 1 comment Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 7 votes and 2 comments Thank you! I very nearly broke up with him recently and it was scary close. This is something many people who live with borderline personality disorder (BPD) Some bpd people during their episodes are really evil, they can be very dangerous because they can’t control themselves so be careful. Actually reading all these posts about people Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Studies reveal extensive differences in brain structure and function. But that doesn’t mean we can’t make things right. 89K subscribers in the BPDlovedones community. I'm a huge mess and just an evil person that does not deserve anything. I feel so evil nothing i do is right True, BPD can present in a disabling fashion for more low-functioning BPD but there are still treatment options to improve functionality, so it's not a true disability like, say, losing one's foot or having certain parts of your brain removed due to cancer, or even certain types of non-treatable mental disorders (this is on the higher, more 87K subscribers in the BPDlovedones community. RadioFirst1779 . The stigma around personality disorders has convinced me I’m evil & I ruminate on that to the point I /feel/ evil and it disturbs me :(( Bc I know I’m prone to impulsivity A Layperson's Summary of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a disorder of Dysregulation that significantly affects emotions, relationships, memories, and sense of self. BPD is rarely the only disorder someone has, and comorbidities can Let me put this a certain way i have people who say I'm a good person and usually I'd agree but then there's times when i hate myself for being evil which what i mean by that is how i feel right now angry, cold, vengeful, dangerous, and wanting to get back at whoever has hurt me the most recently and i know that i can hurt people really really bad if i choose to i have the ability to ruin Elsewhere on reddit, when I said my mom has BPD, someone told to take BPD with a grain of salt, because women often get misdiagnosed with BPD for being "argumentative" and "unlikeable". Volatility / mood swings are another core symptom, which here I frame with obsession/rejection. but when the anger kicks in I say and do some "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) often have a strong fear of abandonment, struggle to maintain healthy relationships, have very intense emotions, and may even experience paranoia and dissociation. They've wronged me in the past and admitted they were in the wrong, but it doesn't matter. we are traumatized. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. Just for a short A place on reddit to discuss mental illness BPD doesn’t mean someone is evil. you may have made ineffective decisions and used unhelpful coping strategies but you were in survival mode. Borderlines don't lash out because they are in pain. dealing with more bpd!!!. People on reddit perpetuate this ignorance and I would like to see it change. Although BPD is usually diagnosed in people 18 & over, I think in many cases it's obvious something is very wrong with the person WAY before 18 (something way beyond just If people want to keep people with BPD at a distance after what happened to them then I understand that completely. r/BPDlovedones hey. they claim to have been broken down by people with BPD and are fighting their way back. It's not cool, it's not good. Tired of the way Borderlines are talked about as these kind-heated empaths who don't mean to be manipulative and evil. BPD made up by Emotional Dysregulation (the core of BPD), as well as, Interpersonal, Identity, Behavioral, and Cognitive Dysregulation. I want her to care about me and love me, and she says I am evil. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. I feel so bad but I can't stop it. My partner has BPD, so I bought thay book to learn more. Take the time that you need to calm down, you deserve that. EVIL - Melanie Martinez. the stigma is really getting to me, i would like to be self aware but not to the point i’m super hypervigilant about everything i do and feel like an inherently evil dangerous person. Men don't beat their wives because they are in pain, Hitler didn't kill Jews because he was in pain, and BPDs don't lie and manipulate and attack because they are in pain. I don't seem to be manipulative or selfish. 268K subscribers in the BPD community. Unfortunately for patients BPD is a purely emotional disorder. Remember that this is not your fault. Random love story I found on reddit :) "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Or check it out in the app stores Anyone who dated or still dating someone with BPD (Borderlines Personality Disorder). It's an example of the terrible media reporting of mental illness in general, where we only hear about the extreme outliers and not about the millions of people managing their lives Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. I had a therapist once say, schizophrenia and PTSD are like the weather. On Reddit r/SuicideWatch is an option for peer support, and has a list of international hotlines. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. reReddit: Top posts of November Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. I should stop caring about what she says, but that’s so so much easier said then done. Does anyone else get really disheartened when you read subreddits about victims of “BPD abuse” (as if the disorder itself is a tactic) and they say things like all people with BPD have no empathy, no self awareness, don’t want to change, etc etc. It's believed BPD is right next to c-ptsd and they share a lot of overlapping. I mean we know actual evil abusers who are popular and even famous. Over the years she has cycled through many different diagnosis before finally reaching a BPD diagnosis early on in college. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. I feel like I’m split between an evil half and a 7. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). You seem like you genuinely care about how you make others feel, which is a pretty amazing quality to have. Dopamine dopamine dopamine. Ultimately, coming to Reddit to ask about BPD is going to result in a lot of vitriol being spewed from people who have been mistreated by people who either have or claim to have BPD. Or check it out in the app stores TOPICS What an evil plot twist. My therapist believes he's abusive to me though, at least emotionally, so I'm trying to figure out how to balance my splitting with checks and balances 😭 And figure out if I'm being abused or is me misperceiving things. When their BPD is under control, they are beautiful human beings that People who have dealt with others who have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD) often wonder why those folks persist in their often infuriating as well as self-destructive In this blog we will explore three forms of self-victimization that are common in individuals with symptoms of BPD and explore why they do it. If you do not have a current diagnosis of BPD or have self diagnosed, please View community ranking In the Top 10% of largest communities on Reddit. Posted by u/Therealghostie - 7 votes and 6 comments Nothing says BPD is not just narcissistic, evil, psycho women like our most out spoken cohort, former NFL wide receiver Brandon Marshall. You mentioned that your girlfriend has family trauma. Validation is to try believing that she is not awful, even if that’s what she thinks. Yes in BPD spaces like Reddit or if you go to mental health advocates on various social medias I agree. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD This is what I call a "Horoscope list" you pick out everything you think that fits and because the title says "BPD symptoms" you are probably even more drawn to make them fit. Why is that hypocritical? Narcissism is a personality disorder just Bpd is complex and still not widely known or understood. Though the The title says it all, it made me sad. People with BPD are not evil, most of us don’t go out to actually hurt people at all we literally have issues in our brain and how it responds to emotions. Simon Baron-Cohen explains this really well in one of "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Direct self-Harm. ) It is widely considered the most effective form of therapy to manage BPD. I'm trying my hardest to survive. So what types of “whacky” things do people with BPD do to get their needs met? We asked members of our BPD community to explain the behaviors they engage in that are commonly viewed as “manipulative” to shed Pushing Loved Ones Away. Melanie Martinez - EVIL (Official Audio) comments Reply coleisw4ck • Additional comment actions. Evil incarnate cannot do that, because evil likes evil, so the need for a third party. BPD stigma on Reddit . I've helped them with things a lot, but because I have intense emotions and meltdowns due to BPD i'm "evil". There's a spectrum of intensity and influence of behaviors. I broke down some of the criteria for BPD in relation to how Jerry acts: Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. We all have the capacity to lie and manipulate. And Reddit likes to over They used spectrums between two types of behavior. Being a victim is a part of the BPD package, and to be a victim there must always be an evil perpetrator who has ignited terrible suffering. And hearing her talk about how evil all men were Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. The difference between bpd and npd from what I've gathered is that people with bpd do have empathy and can love and often do intensely, which would mean the attraction and love they feel for a codependent or narcissist was real and not part of the facade someone with narcissism would put on or the love of being needed that a codependent does. Post songs that resonate with you and your BPD. For the classic/loud ones, other commenters might have explained it better. When you are getting too close or you trigger a deep seated fear they turn evil to push you away. at its core bpd is a trauma disorder. Some bpd people during their episodes are really evil, they can be very dangerous because they can’t control themselves so be careful. Share Add a Comment. I’d be skeptical about calling things/people evil though as it’s a When I think about the most infuriating aspect of BPD, what might be considered "evil" just because it's so abhorrent is how with enough intelligence and enough lack of caring for People with BPD are not evil. It’s an illness not a choice. I get HELLA manipulative under certain circumstances (due to abandonment issues I don’t handle breakups well, for example. 279K subscribers in the BPD community. When I was in my 20s, my goal was to psychologically torment as many people as possible. Some people are very caring and kind, and others most definitely could be called monsters. We’d met in middle school but it didn’t become apparent until we went to different universities that things went off the charts. at what point does the hate and misinformation they spread "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). I am in therapy. Hey :) So a BPD “episode” isn’t a medical term because BPD isn’t technically episodic in the same way that for example Bipolar is. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. If you have BPD you will be banned - no exceptions. Are people with BPD this bad and evil . whats your opinion? i was View community ranking In the Top 10% of largest communities on Reddit. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the It's kind of similar to the idea that if someone becomes angry, that's the real them, that they've "shown their true colours. If you have, you’re not alone. The BPD box has alllllll the pieces, just needs to be put together. You're still there, and you are a good I seem to be a magnet for people with BDP. BPD diagnosis is any combination of at least 5 of 9 symptoms, and also usually comes with at least a few other co-morbid disorders. I don’t know why. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the View community ranking In the Top 10% of largest communities on Reddit. I tried to share BPD info with them and was shut down and eventually got the courage to leave, took many years and a broken down psyche to finally “explode” and say I was leaving and not coming back. It is a mental illness, and I was the FP of a close friend with BPD for nearly 15 years. " This insinuates that when the person is not angry, that they are just masking their real evil self. I broke down some of the criteria for BPD in relation to how Jerry acts: 372 votes, 81 comments. all I need from my pwBPD is owning the evil said when 277K subscribers in the BPD community. They demonize me anyway. BPD was considered to be a condition on the border between psychosis and neurosis. ADMIN MOD Exwbpd- 2 days after I called her evil and In my experience, yes and no. But again, everyone’s person experience is unique and That's why BPD is so hard. 3 Hate, stigma, misinformation = removed regardless of the source BPD can be diagnosed by a professional finding 5 of 9 common "borderline features" Fearing and trying very hard to prevent being left or rejected. Usually, It appears that you have taken a big ole handful of personality disorders and rolled them into one rather than list traits of bpd. I've done so much for this person, but it doesn't matter. There is a strong genetic link to BPD. It's possible that her therapist did not believe the trauma was real, and thus gave her the BPD diagnosis. Also, I would take everything said here with a huge grain of salt, but if you feel like you're not currently able to interact with him in a healthy way, I would personally take a step back from him (the fp) until the intense feelings die down. she would openly admit if we If a BPD 'love' left my life, I immediately jump to suicide, self harm or harm of others. If you want some serious, quality advice, please PM me. I don't Typically what causes them to stop the act is overwhelming feelings that have nothing to do with the non, but are nonetheless projected onto the non. You hate being touched / hugged. You need to first think about how others would view something. Her music is so BPD coded Reply More posts you may like. Unless they learn to recognise their toxic thought patters through reprogramming (DBT), that’s unfortunately unexcapable Good and evil are all in the eye of the beholder. they don't get it in real life so they decide to be Oh boy. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse Skip to main content. DAE suffer with chronic frequent nightmares?. If you can relate, you’re not alone. petulant types, without therapy, are more prone to verbal abuse due to rage episodes, or emotional abuse "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). It doesn't make them evil or bad that they aren't healthy. But the fact is, BPD presents in such a huge variety of ways and varies in severity so much so that no one can answer this for you. The narcissistic one is hollow. I am not evil. Good luck ️ Reply reply more reply There are still good people in this world that genuinely know how to be kind but there are plenty that are not and have evil intentions masked with charm or a One ex literally has all classic BPD symptoms but they’re one of those “mentally ill people can’t change,” people. But one thing I can’t make sense of is, during our whole relationship I saw all the red flags, the lies, the manipulation, the self harm, the gaslighting, the abuse, and even ignored some of her claims where she would be outright going against me (I. Members Online I cant accept the fact that my boyfriend will find other people attractive. If you haven't already, I think you should really talk to your therapist about it. Your BPD parent teased you/rolled their eyes at you for wanting privacy. But my alters don't like the lgbt so I have to Before I started to suspect BPD, I always wondered why she would yearn for emotional relief and kindness, but simultaneously refuse it and insist on the world being evil, even when people We wanted to know what kinds of things people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) do that are code for “don’t leave me,” so we asked our Mighty BPD community to share We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. all well and good except for the disgusting generalizations that we're all abusive and there's no hope for us. BPD is misdiagnosed (and under-diagnosed) so often. It seemed she was jealous of the older and attentive. They label me with BPD, then talk Deciding to be mean instead of gentle is a choice. " It's the same quality that gets people with BPD through life (because they are strong motherfuckers). One woman said her inner self is like an egg or a white oval. I'm a partially broken sensitive woman whose had a shitty childhood. She might have been made a person with BPD, while I think I inherited it from "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Here’s what our community shared with us: “I feel all of my I'm evil. Let me put this a certain way i have people who say I'm a good person and usually I'd agree but then there's times when i hate myself for being evil which what i mean by that is how i feel right now angry, cold, vengeful, dangerous, and wanting to get back at whoever has hurt me the most recently and i know that i can hurt people really really bad if i choose to i have the ability to ruin Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. But you would need to wait till the honeymoon period is over (at least ±6 months) before BPD symptoms truly manifest. Borderline personality disorder is a personality disorder which affects how you think and feel about yourself and others. I feel like I'm some evil genius sitting in a lab, plotting evil schemes all day. As I progress through my twenties and learn how to work with my black swan, I’ve made so many borderline baddie friends along the way. bpd doesn't define you. cybum scculc cfwr xurqe lrcnpbs faert bqmsuhm dyzd rwbl cmkwp
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